Essential Questions Parents Should Ask After an Autism Diagnosis
Getting an autism diagnosis for your child can feel overwhelming. Most parents leave the appointment with more questions than answers—and that’s completely normal. Asking the right questions early can help you feel more confident, informed, and prepared for what comes next.
Below is a straightforward list of important questions many parents find helpful right after an autism diagnosis.
Questions About the Diagnosis
Understanding the diagnosis itself is the first step.
- What does this diagnosis mean for my child specifically?
Autism looks different in every child. Ask how it shows up for your child. - Where does my child fall on the
autism spectrum?
This can help explain strengths, challenges, and support needs. - Are there other evaluations we should consider?
Speech, occupational therapy, or developmental evaluations may be recommended.
Questions About Support and Therapy
Early support can make a big difference.
- What therapies are recommended right now?
Common options include ABA therapy, speech therapy, and occupational therapy. - How soon should we start services?
Early intervention for autism is often key. - What goals should therapy focus on first?
This might include communication, daily living skills, or behavior support.
Questions About ABA Therapy
ABA therapy is one of the most widely recommended, evidence-based supports for autism.
- Is ABA therapy appropriate for my child?
- What does ABA therapy look like day to day?
- Will therapy happen at home, school, or both?
- How are parents involved in the process?
Understanding how ABA works helps families feel more comfortable and engaged.
Questions About School and Education
If your child is school-aged, education planning matters.
- What supports can my child receive at school?
- Should we request an IEP or 504 plan?
- How can we help teachers understand my child’s needs?
Clear communication with the school can prevent frustration later on.
Questions About Family Support
You don’t have to do this alone.
- What training or support is available for parents?
- How can we support our child at home?
- Are there local or community resources we should know about?
Parent support and education can be just as important as therapy.
How We Support Families at Inclusive ABA
At Inclusive ABA, we work with families who are brand new to an autism diagnosis every day. We know how confusing and emotional this stage can be, and we’re here to help guide you through it.
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If your child was recently diagnosed and you’re not sure where to start, reach out to us. Contact Inclusive ABA and let’s take the next step together—one question at a time.
FAQs
Is it normal to feel overwhelmed after an autism diagnosis?
Yes. Many parents feel shocked, scared, or unsure at first. Support and information help over time.
What should we focus on first after diagnosis?
Learning about your child’s needs and starting recommended therapies is usually the first step.
Do parents need special training?
Parent training can be very helpful. It gives you tools to support your child in everyday situations.
Sources:
- https://www.ed.gov/sites/ed/files/parents/needs/speced/iepguide/iepguide.pdf
- https://www.autismspeaks.org/autism-diagnostic-criteria-dsm-5
- https://www.cdc.gov/autism/hcp/diagnosis/index.html
- https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/diagnosis/after-diagnosis/emotional-support-for-family-members-after-a-diagn
- https://www.autismspeaks.org/new-autism-diagnosis
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