How to Reduce Attention-Seeking Behaviors in a Positive Way?

Start by reinforcing positive behaviors. Praise or reward moments when your child uses appropriate communication, like asking politely or waiting their turn. This teaches that positive actions lead to attention. Next, practice consistency. Respond calmly and avoid reinforcing negative behaviors with immediate reactions. Instead, redirect focus to constructive activities.

Teaching replacement skills is also key. Encourage children to use words, gestures, or coping strategies to express themselves. Over time, these skills reduce frustration and build independence.

Remember, attention-seeking is a signal, not defiance. By approaching with patience and structured support, families can help children feel heard while promoting lasting growth.

At Inclusive ABA, we provide evidence-based strategies to help families manage behaviors positively through ABA therapy in Nevada, Nebraska, Colorado, Utah, Iowa, and Ohio. 

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